“Lily Melissa Owens, your name is not Lily Melissa Owens anymore. It's Lily Melissa Owens-Boatwright.”
— August Boatwright's unofficial adoption of Lily.

Sue Monk Kidd (2001)
Genre
Historical Fiction / Young Adult
Reading Time
500 min
Key Themes
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In 1964 South Carolina, a runaway white girl and her black caretaker find refuge with eccentric beekeeping sisters, uncovering secrets of the past and the healing power of a Black Madonna amidst a world of honey and acceptance.
Lily Owens, a fourteen-year-old white girl, lives in Sylvan, South Carolina, in 1964 with her abusive peach-farmer father, T. Ray. She has a blurred memory of her mother, Deborah, being accidentally shot when Lily was four. Lily believes she was holding the gun. T. Ray constantly reminds her of this event and tells her Deborah never loved her. Lily's only comfort comes from her collection of bee-related items and the affection of Rosaleen Daise, the black housekeeper who acts as a mother figure. Lily feels a deep longing for connection and often visits her mother's old belongings, including a mysterious wooden picture of a Black Madonna with the words 'Tiburon, S.C.' written on the back.
The Civil Rights Act has just passed, and Rosaleen, inspired by a televised speech, tries to register to vote in Sylvan. On her way to town, three racist white men beat her severely for pouring snuff juice on their shoes after they taunt her. Rosaleen is arrested and hospitalized. T. Ray brings Lily to see her, showing little concern for Rosaleen's well-being. Lily, horrified by the injustice and fearing for Rosaleen's safety if she remains in jail, decides to break her out. She sneaks Rosaleen out of the hospital and together they hitchhike, beginning their journey to Tiburon, South Carolina, the town written on the back of Lily's Black Madonna picture.
After a difficult journey, Lily and Rosaleen arrive in Tiburon. In a general store, Lily spots a jar of honey with the same Black Madonna image on its label as the one she possesses. The store owner directs them to the house of August Boatwright, the beekeeper. They arrive at a bright pink house, where August and her sisters, June and May, greet them. Lily invents a story about being orphans heading to an aunt in Virginia. August, seemingly seeing through the lie but offering compassion, allows them to stay in the honey house on her property. Lily is immediately drawn to the unique, spiritual atmosphere of the Boatwright home.
Lily and Rosaleen begin to integrate into the lives of the Boatwright sisters. Lily helps August with beekeeping, learning about the hive and the symbolism of the queen bee. Rosaleen assists May with household chores and finds a sense of peace. Lily observes the sisters' unique spiritual practices, centered around a large wooden statue of a Black Madonna, whom they call 'Our Lady of Chains.' She learns about the Daughters of Mary, a group of women who gather at the pink house for spiritual solace and shared worship, forming a nurturing community Lily has never experienced before.
As Lily spends more time in the pink house, she starts noticing details that resonate with her faint memories of her mother. She discovers that her mother's favorite drink, Coca-Cola with peanuts, is a common treat in the Boatwright home. She also finds a small, familiar hairbrush and a picture of Deborah among August's belongings, confirming her growing suspicion that her mother had a connection to this house. Lily is too afraid to confront August directly, fearing that the truth might force her to leave this haven and the only true family she has ever known.
Lily develops a close friendship and budding romantic feelings for Zachary Taylor, a young black man who works for August as her assistant beekeeper. Zach is ambitious, dreams of becoming a lawyer, and encourages Lily's aspirations to be a writer. Their interracial connection is fraught with the dangers of 1964 South Carolina. Zach is later arrested after his friend throws a bottle at a group of white men who had harassed them, leading to a tense and emotional period for Lily and the Boatwrights. His arrest highlights the harsh realities of racial injustice that even the peaceful world of the pink house cannot fully escape.
May Boatwright, who is highly empathetic and deeply affected by the suffering of others, experiences immense emotional distress over Zach's imprisonment. She copes with sadness by writing down her troubles and placing them in a wailing wall. Overwhelmed by the collective sorrow and the injustice of Zach's situation, May retreats to her wailing wall. She then disappears, and the sisters find her drowned in the river, having committed suicide. Her death plunges the household into deep mourning and forces Lily to confront the fragility of life and the impact of grief, even within their loving community.
After May's funeral and a period of intense grief, Lily finally asks August about her mother. August gently reveals the truth: Deborah had lived at the pink house during her childhood and had returned there after leaving T. Ray, seeking refuge and solace from her unhappy marriage. August explains that Deborah had come to retrieve her belongings and was planning to take Lily with her, but she had to leave Lily behind temporarily. This revelation brings both comfort and pain to Lily, confirming her mother's love but also the tragic circumstances of her departure.
Just as Lily is beginning to process the truth about Deborah, T. Ray arrives at the pink house, having tracked Lily down through a phone call to her school. He is furious and intends to take Lily back to Sylvan. In a tense confrontation, T. Ray attempts to physically drag Lily away, repeating his accusations about her killing her mother and Deborah not loving her. August intervenes, standing firm against T. Ray's abuse. The Boatwright sisters and Rosaleen rally around Lily, creating a wall of protection. T. Ray, defeated by their united front and the realization that Lily has found a true home, eventually leaves without her.
With T. Ray gone, Lily is officially welcomed into the Boatwright family. August becomes her legal guardian, and Lily finally experiences the unconditional love and support she has always craved. She continues to help with the bees, write in her journal, and deepen her understanding of the spiritual practices of the Daughters of Mary. Rosaleen also finds a permanent home and a sense of belonging with the sisters. Lily realizes that her mother's love was real and that she has found her own 'secret life' among these powerful, nurturing women, ready to face her future with a newfound sense of self and family.
The Protagonist
Lily transforms from a lonely, guilt-ridden girl into a confident young woman who understands her past, finds a loving family, and embraces her own identity.
The Supporting
Rosaleen finds her own place of belonging and acceptance within the Boatwright family, finally able to live freely and without fear.
The Supporting
August continues her role as a spiritual guide and matriarch, expanding her family to include Lily and Rosaleen, fulfilling her commitment to Deborah.
The Supporting
June overcomes her past hurts and racial prejudice to accept Lily as part of her family, also finding personal happiness in her engagement to Neil.
The Supporting
May's arc is tragic, as her inability to cope with the world's suffering leads to her suicide, but her memory serves to strengthen the bonds of her family.
The Antagonist
T. Ray's character remains largely static; he continues to be consumed by his bitterness, but he ultimately loses his hold over Lily.
The Mentioned
Deborah's story is revealed through flashbacks and accounts, providing closure and understanding for Lily about her mother's love and struggles.
The Supporting
Zach's arc involves navigating racial injustice while maintaining his dreams and supporting Lily, becoming a symbol of hope for her.
This theme is central to Lily's journey. Haunted by the absence of her biological mother and T. Ray's abuse, Lily desperately seeks a maternal figure and a place where she feels truly loved and accepted. Her quest leads her to the Boatwright sisters, who collectively provide the nurturing, guidance, and unconditional love she craves. The pink house becomes a haven where Lily is reborn into a supportive family, showing that motherhood can be found in unexpected places and forms, often chosen rather than biological. The community of the Daughters of Mary further emphasizes this idea of collective maternal support.
“T. Ray did not think colored women were worthy of having names. He called Rosaleen 'nigger,' and if she was slow to respond, he'd say, 'Yes, ma'am, I'm talking to you, nigger.'”
Set in 1964, the novel portrays the pervasive racism and social injustice of the American South during the Civil Rights Movement. Rosaleen's brutal beating for trying to register to vote, Zach's arrest, and June's initial distrust of Lily are examples of this theme. The Boatwright household, a self-sufficient black community, serves as a sanctuary from the harsh realities outside, yet it is not entirely immune. The novel explores the dangers faced by black individuals and the quiet strength and resilience required to navigate such a prejudiced society.
“It was the first time I'd seen a Negro woman wear a hat and gloves to register. I mean, white women did it, but never a colored woman.”
The spiritual practices of the Boatwright sisters, centered around the Black Madonna, introduce Lily to a powerful and comforting form of faith. This 'Our Lady of Chains' represents a nurturing, strong, and accessible divine feminine presence, contrasting with the patriarchal religious upbringing Lily experienced. The Daughters of Mary create a community that emphasizes love, compassion, and shared strength, offering a spiritual path connected to nature and the honeybees. Lily's journey is not just about finding her mother's past but also about discovering a spiritual connection that heals her emotional wounds and empowers her.
“Our Lady was not a statue of Mary. She was a statue of a black woman, but she was not Mary. She was something else, someone else, and she had come from a place I'd never been.”
Lily's entire quest is driven by fragmented memories of her mother and the stories she has been told, or withheld. The novel explores how personal narratives, both true and fabricated, shape identity and understanding. Lily invents stories about her past to survive, while August carefully reconstructs Deborah's story to help Lily heal. The act of sharing stories, both painful and comforting, is crucial for healing and building connections within the Boatwright family. The novel itself is Lily's story, reflecting the power of narrative to make sense of the past and inform the future.
“I had a picture of her in my mind, a blurred, watery image, and I could never make it clear.”
The metaphor of the bees and the hive is central to this theme. The Boatwright sisters' beekeeping practices and their spiritual beliefs emphasize the interconnectedness of all living things and the importance of community. The bees, working together in a complex social structure, mirror the supportive and collaborative environment of the pink house and the Daughters of Mary. Lily learns about the delicate balance of nature and how each individual, like each bee, plays a vital role in the larger ecosystem, reinforcing the idea that she, too, has a place and purpose within a loving community.
“The bees were a secret language, a code I was desperate to learn.”
A small wooden statue of a black Virgin Mary that serves as a spiritual and symbolic anchor.
The Black Madonna image, initially on the back of Lily's mother's picture and later on the honey jars, acts as a guiding symbol for Lily's journey. It leads her to Tiburon and the Boatwrights, who worship a large wooden Black Madonna statue they call 'Our Lady of Chains.' This figure represents divine feminine power, strength, and unconditional love, particularly for black women. It provides a spiritual framework for the Boatwrights' community and becomes a source of comfort and empowerment for Lily, symbolizing the nurturing mother she seeks and a unique, accessible form of faith.
The literal beekeeping activities and the symbolic representation of community and matriarchy.
The bees and the beehive serve as a powerful extended metaphor throughout the novel. Literally, beekeeping is the Boatwright sisters' livelihood and provides a structured, purposeful activity for Lily. Symbolically, the hive represents a matriarchal society, a perfectly organized community where the queen bee is the heart. This mirrors the pink house, a female-led sanctuary where each sister and the Daughters of Mary play a vital role. The bees teach Lily about order, cooperation, and the importance of finding one's place within a larger, supportive group, embodying the themes of community and the divine feminine.
Objects connected to Deborah, which serve as clues and tangible links to Lily's past.
Lily's collection of her mother's items – the white gloves, the small whale pin, and especially the picture of the Black Madonna with 'Tiburon, S.C.' on the back – are crucial plot devices. These objects are not merely sentimental keepsakes; they are tangible clues that propel Lily's journey and help her piece together the mystery of her mother's life. They provide the initial impetus for her escape and serve as confirmation of her mother's connection to the Boatwrights, slowly revealing the truth and giving Lily a sense of her mother's presence.
A stone wall where May Boatwright places her written sorrows, symbolizing collective grief and emotional release.
The wailing wall is a unique coping mechanism for May, where she writes down her deepest sorrows and tucks them into the cracks of the wall. This device externalizes May's profound empathy and her struggle with the world's pain. It serves as a literal and symbolic repository of grief, not just for May but for the collective suffering of the community. Its presence highlights the emotional sensitivity of the Boatwright household and becomes a poignant symbol of May's inability to fully process her emotions, ultimately leading to her tragic end. It also signifies the importance of acknowledging and processing sorrow.
“Lily Melissa Owens, your name is not Lily Melissa Owens anymore. It's Lily Melissa Owens-Boatwright.”
— August Boatwright's unofficial adoption of Lily.
“People don't like to think, if they have to think, they get mad.”
— T. Ray's general disposition and Lily's observation of it.
“It was a great thing, my mother dying. I mean, not for her, but for me. It was a great thing for me because it gave me a license to be extraordinary.”
— Lily reflecting on her mother's death and its impact on her life's trajectory.
“There is nothing perfect. There is only life.”
— August explaining the imperfections of life and the importance of acceptance.
“The hardest thing on earth is choosing what matters.”
— August sharing her philosophy with Lily.
“I understood that a honey flow was a time of intense creation for the bees, when they foraged and made honey with a single-mindedness that excluded everything else.”
— Lily's observation of the bees' behavior and its symbolic meaning.
“I hadn't had a mother since I was four years old, and it was hard to recall the feeling of her hand in mine, the smell of her skin, the sound of her voice.”
— Lily reflecting on her lost mother.
“It’s funny how you can look at a person and think you know what’s there. But then you get a little closer and you see that they have a whole other life behind their eyes.”
— Lily observing the complexities of people, particularly Rosaleen.
“You know, some people say that the world is a stage, and we are just actors. But I think it's more like a beehive, and we are all just worker bees, doing our part.”
— August sharing her metaphor for life.
“I saw that the world was not a place of rules, but a place of exceptions.”
— Lily's evolving understanding of life beyond rigid structures.
“Every person has a God-given right to be treated with dignity and respect.”
— Rosaleen's unwavering belief in human rights.
“I was a girl who lived in a house with a man who could not love me.”
— Lily's painful realization about her relationship with T. Ray.
“Our Lady of Chains, hear our prayers.”
— The Boatwright sisters' ritualistic prayer to the Black Madonna.
“Dr. King said, 'I have a dream,' and I thought, 'Me too.'”
— Rosaleen being inspired by the Civil Rights Movement.
“You have to find a mother inside yourself. We all do.”
— August's advice to Lily about self-reliance and inner strength.
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