“I love you, Isla. I love you, I love you, I love you.”
— Josh's confession of love to Isla.

Stephanie Perkins (2014)
Genre
Young Adult / Romance
Reading Time
300 min
Key Themes
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In romantic Paris, a shy artist and a quiet cartoonist navigate first love, long-distance, and future plans, surrounded by their friends.
Isla Martin, a quiet and insecure student at the School of America in Paris, spends her summer break in New York City. For three years, she has had a secret crush on Josh Wasserstein, an artistic student from her school. One day, while working at her family's restaurant, Isla is surprised when Josh enters. He is in New York for the summer after being expelled from the School of America for a prank. They share an awkward but meaningful conversation, where Isla confesses her crush, and Josh, surprisingly, feels the same. They spend the rest of the summer getting to know each other, leading to their first kiss and the start of a tentative romance.
As senior year begins back at the School of America in Paris, Isla and Josh's relationship is mostly a secret. Isla, usually reserved, feels more confident and happy with Josh. They spend their free time exploring Paris, often sketching or simply enjoying each other's company. Their connection grows, but the reality of their different academic paths and post-graduation plans starts to become clear. Josh focuses on art school, while Isla aims for an Ivy League college, a path her parents expect. Their secret romance adds excitement but also stress to their busy lives.
For their autumn break, Isla and Josh take a spontaneous trip to Barcelona. This trip is important for their relationship, filled with romantic adventures, shared laughter, and deep conversations. They explore the city's architecture, visit art museums, and enjoy the culture. During this time, Isla and Josh truly open up to each other, discussing their dreams and fears. While the trip strengthens their love, it also highlights their future differences. Josh's passion for art and his desire to attend RISD are clear, while Isla's academic goals, pushed by her parents, feel increasingly separate from what she wants.
Upon returning to Paris, Isla faces increasing pressure from her parents, especially her mother, about her college applications. Her parents expect her to attend an Ivy League university, specifically Yale, and see her relationship with Josh as a distraction. Isla struggles to balance her growing romance with her schoolwork and her parents' vision for her future. She feels torn between her happiness with Josh and fulfilling her parents' dreams. This outside pressure starts to cause friction in her relationship with Josh, who encourages her to follow her own path.
Josh participates in a local art show, displaying his unique and personal comic art. Isla attends, very proud of his talent. Seeing his work publicly exhibited confirms Josh's commitment to pursuing art professionally, specifically at RISD. This event shows how clear Josh's future path is, contrasting with Isla's growing uncertainty about her own. While she admires his conviction, it highlights her own struggle to define her post-high school life outside of her parents' expectations, making her question if she truly wants to attend an Ivy League.
The growing pressure from Isla's parents, along with her own conflict about college, eventually leads to a breaking point. A misunderstanding happens when Isla thinks Josh dismisses her academic struggles, while Josh feels Isla is not honest about her true desires. The stress of their different futures and the fear of a long-distance relationship after graduation lead to a heated argument. In a moment of pain, they decide to break up, believing it is the only way to avoid future heartache when they go to different colleges. The separation leaves both Isla and Josh heartbroken.
After their breakup, Isla and Josh try to finish their senior year without each other. Isla focuses on her studies but finds little joy in her achievements. She misses Josh terribly, feeling an emptiness in her life. Josh also struggles with the separation, his art becoming sadder. They avoid each other, but their friends, including Anna and Étienne, notice their unhappiness. Both Isla and Josh realize that their decision to break up, though meant to prevent future pain, has only caused immediate suffering, making them question if they made the right choice.
Isla's friends, particularly Anna and Lola, grow concerned about her sadness. They encourage her to fight for her relationship with Josh. Inspired by their support and her own longing, Isla makes an important decision. She confronts her parents, confessing that she does not want to go to Yale, that her passion lies elsewhere, and that she wants to be with Josh. This confession is a significant step towards her independence and defining her own future, separate from her parents' expectations. It is a moment of personal growth for Isla.
After her talk with her parents, Isla decides to act. She travels to New York City, where Josh spends his summer before starting at RISD. She finds him and, in a heartfelt conversation, explains her change of heart, her realization that she wants to be with him, and her decision to pursue a different college path that fits her desires. Josh, who has also struggled with their separation, feels the same. They reconcile, promising to make their long-distance relationship work, showing their lasting love and commitment.
Isla and Josh officially get back together, now with a new sense of purpose and a shared understanding of their commitment. Isla chooses to attend NYU, a university in the same city as RISD, allowing them to be together. The novel ends with them making plans for their future, confident in their ability to handle the challenges of college and a long-distance relationship. Their journey shows the importance of self-discovery, open communication, and fighting for true love, ending with a hopeful 'happily ever after' for the couple, with their friends Anna, Étienne, Lola, and Cricket celebrating their bond.
The Protagonist
Isla transforms from a timid girl defined by parental expectations into a confident young woman who makes her own choices in love and life.
The Love Interest / Deuteragonist
Josh learns to trust and fully commit to a relationship, finding stability and happiness with Isla while pursuing his artistic aspirations.
The Supporting / Antagonist
Her character remains largely static, serving as an obstacle for Isla to overcome in her journey towards independence.
The Supporting
Anna serves as a consistent source of friendship and wisdom, having already navigated her own romantic journey in a previous book.
The Supporting
Étienne's character provides continuity and support, his own relationship with Anna serving as an example of overcoming obstacles.
The Supporting
Lola continues to be a supportive and positive influence, her character arc having largely concluded in her own book.
The Supporting / Mentioned
Cricket's role is primarily to support Lola and provide context for the wider friend group.
The Supporting / Mentioned
His character serves as part of the parental unit, without a distinct individual arc.
The novel explores Isla's journey of self-discovery, as she moves from letting others dictate her path to making her own choices. Her initial insecurity and reliance on parental approval slowly change into a stronger sense of self, especially as she navigates her relationship with Josh. This is clear when she finally confronts her parents about not wanting to attend Yale and choosing NYU instead, a decision driven by her own desires and her love for Josh, rather than outside pressure.
““I'm not going to Yale,” I blurt out, the words feeling both terrifying and exhilarating. “I'm going to NYU.””
At its core, the book celebrates first love. Isla's long-standing crush on Josh grows into a deep, meaningful relationship that changes her. Their love gives her confidence, joy, and the courage to pursue her own happiness. Even when facing obstacles like distance and parental disapproval, their bond is strong enough to overcome these challenges, showing how a true connection can inspire personal growth and resilience.
““I'd never thought about it before, but there's a difference between loving someone and being in love with them. For the first time in my life, I was in love.””
A main conflict involves Isla's struggle to balance her parents' academic expectations with her own desire for personal happiness and her relationship with Josh. Her parents push her towards prestigious universities, while her heart pulls her towards Josh and a life where she can pursue her own interests. This theme highlights the pressure many young adults face when making big life decisions, and the importance of finding a path that truly fulfills them, rather than just meeting outside standards. The Barcelona trip particularly shows the joy and freedom Isla finds when she puts happiness first.
““Maybe it's not about the destination. Maybe it's about the journey. And maybe, just maybe, the journey is better with someone you love.””
Isla and Josh's relationship has its challenges, from initial secrecy and Josh's past to the threat of long distance and parental disapproval. The book explores how communication problems, future worries, and outside pressures can strain a relationship. However, it ultimately emphasizes fighting for love, communicating openly, and making compromises. Their breakup and reconciliation show that true love can overcome difficulties, if both partners work through problems and prioritize their connection.
““I realized that sometimes, the hardest decisions are the right ones. And sometimes, the right decisions are the ones that lead you back to where you belong.””
The supportive friends, including Anna, Étienne, and Lola, are important in Isla's journey. They offer emotional support, advice, and encouragement when Isla is at her lowest. Their help, especially after Isla and Josh's breakup, is key in pushing Isla to confront her feelings and fight for her relationship. This theme shows the value of strong friendships during formative years, providing a sense of belonging and an important outside perspective when characters struggle with personal decisions.
““That’s what friends are for. To remind you what’s really important, even when you forget.””
Adds tension and intimacy to Isla and Josh's early romance.
The initial secrecy of Isla and Josh's relationship creates an intimate bubble for the couple, allowing their bond to deepen away from external judgment. This device generates suspense and highlights their shared world. However, it also contributes to Isla's internal conflict and the eventual pressure from her parents when the relationship is revealed. The secrecy underscores the theme of private happiness versus public expectations, making their eventual public commitment more impactful.
Uses different locations (NYC, Paris, Barcelona) to mark relationship milestones and challenges.
The shifting settings of New York, Paris, and Barcelona are not merely backdrops but active elements in the plot. New York symbolizes their initial, unexpected connection and summer romance. Paris represents the development of their relationship amidst daily life and academic pressures. Barcelona is a romantic escape that solidifies their bond but also brings their future differences into focus. The subsequent separation and Isla's return to New York for their reconciliation emphasize the effort required to overcome distance and underscore the importance of their reunion.
Provides Josh with a rebellious edge and a reason for his initial presence in NYC.
Josh's expulsion from the School of America for a graffiti prank serves multiple purposes. It immediately establishes his artistic, rebellious, and non-conformist nature, making him an intriguing contrast to Isla's more conventional background. It also provides a plausible reason for him to be in New York during the summer, creating the chance encounter that kickstarts the romance. This backstory adds depth to Josh's character, hinting at a past that has shaped his independent spirit and artistic drive.
Isla's parents' academic demands create major external conflict.
The high academic expectations of Isla's parents, particularly her mother's insistence on an Ivy League education, serve as a primary external conflict. This device creates significant tension for Isla, forcing her to choose between fulfilling her parents' dreams and pursuing her own happiness with Josh. It highlights the real-world pressures faced by many young adults and provides the impetus for Isla's crucial journey of self-advocacy and independence, culminating in her standing up to them.
“I love you, Isla. I love you, I love you, I love you.”
— Josh's confession of love to Isla.
“For the first time in my life, I truly felt like I was home. And it wasn’t a place, it was a person.”
— Isla reflecting on her feelings for Josh.
“Maybe the best things in life are the ones that happen unexpectedly.”
— Isla's thoughts on her unexpected romance with Josh.
“He was my favorite song, and I never wanted it to end.”
— Isla describing how she feels about Josh.
“It’s not perfect, but it’s ours. And that’s what matters.”
— Isla and Josh accepting the imperfections of their relationship.
“Sometimes you have to be brave enough to take a chance, even if you’re scared.”
— Isla contemplating taking a risk for her future and love.
“There are some people you meet, and you just know. You know you’re going to be friends. You know you’re going to be in love.”
— Isla's realization about her connection with Josh.
“I wanted to be the girl who made him smile, not the one who made him frown.”
— Isla's desire to be a positive influence in Josh's life.
“The world felt sharper, brighter, more alive when I was with him.”
— Isla describing the transformative effect Josh has on her.
“Every time I looked at him, it was like seeing the stars for the very first time.”
— Isla's awe and wonder when looking at Josh.
“You don't have to be perfect for me. Just be you.”
— Josh reassuring Isla about her insecurities.
“Life isn't a fairy tale. It's better. It's real.”
— Isla's understanding that real love is more profound than fictional romance.
“I didn't know I was looking for him until I found him.”
— Isla's reflection on how Josh entered her life unexpectedly.
“Sometimes, the hardest part of letting go is realizing you never really had it to begin with.”
— Isla's internal struggle with past feelings or expectations.
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